The last two months have been the most challenging I have experienced as a parent. Evan's behavior has been extremely difficult from the moment he wakes up until he goes to bed. He is defiant, hyper, aggressive and the list goes on. My patience and ability to cope with his behavior has been pretty terrible due to the fact that Ava wakes up at least a half a dozen times each night. I will not be winning any mother of the year awards! At my wits end I visited his pediatrician a week ago and she made some suggestions that we have been implementing. Miraculously they have been working it seems because his behavior seems a little better every day. Then today I woke up to a completely different child. Aaron mentioned on his way to work that Evan was awake. I got up and went into his room to find him playing quietly waiting for me (this NEVER happens). All day long he was sweet and listened and used his manners every time he asked for something. It was amazing, I actually enjoyed his company again! We did not have one single time-out all day! He ate a great dinner with no fights, we played on the floor together and he hugged me repeatedly and told me how much he loved me. Then Aaron, Evan and I cuddled together on the couch and watched part of a movie. I was practically holding my breath, it was so great! We were actually having fun with our son again! He just went to bed and I am hopeful that tomorrow the same little boy that I saw a glimpse of again today will return. I've missed him!
Funny child quotes to make you laugh:
Overheard at a play date with his friend, Oliver (age 2 1/2): After a discussion of one of their favorite shows Evan tells Oliver "We don't have cable anymore". Oliver walks up to Evan, put his hands on him, looks him right in the eye and says "I'm sorry Evan".
I had just returned home after getting my eyebrows waxed in preparation for our family portraits. The first thing Evan said to me was "Mommy, why are your eyebrows so small?".
As we are walking through the grocery store Evan begins pointing out all of the things he recognizes. To my surprise he points out a display of instant coffee and says "Mom, that's coffee." I say "How did you know that?" Evan responds loudly and with great confidence "Because I am a genius!".
now Ava is rolling from her stomach to her back and vice-versa. She just recently learned how to roll from her back to her stomach and loves to show off her new trick. She started eating solids this week and so far she hates it! She makes the funniest faces, it is hilarious! Her legs are getting really strong and tonight Aaron stood her up on the edge of the fireplace and she held on for a really long time by herself. During this time she and Evan actually played for the first time together. Evan was laughing hysterically at the fact that Ava was reaching out for his Thomas the Train. Then as quickly as it came the peaceful moment was over and Evan got upset that she was touching his train. I think it took him by surprise that she was already interested in his toys.
as he called him (he has no idea who he is!).
He started waking up in the middle of the night for the last few weeks saying that he saw ghosts in his room so I decided that any scary costumes were out. He had just recently showed a lot of interest in super heroes so I went out on a limb and bought him a Superman costume. Boy, was it a hit! The best $17 I have ever spent. He wore it every single waking minute that I allowed him to. It entertained him for hours. It was so sweet seeing him flying around the house and jumping up and down in his little red cape. By the time Halloween rolled around the costume had numerous holes in it and several food stains. We could barely contain him before we headed out to begin trick-or-treating, he was bouncing off the walls. Finally my Dad (a.k.a. Papa), Evan, Ava and I met up with our neighbors and hit the pavement. After about six houses Evan was more interested in his friend's light saber than he was trick-or-treating, he kept asking me to hold his bag. Ava was a trouper (as she usually is when I drag her around doing activities for her big brother) for the 45 minutes we were out.
day last Sunday at the Farm working on various projects. It rained on our drive up there and I was worried what I was going to do with Evan all day. It turned out to be an amazingly picture perfect fall day. Evan, Ava and I helped my aunts Nancy and Betsy remove tree protectors in the riparian area along Kristoferson Creek. Ava seemed to like the bouncing motions in the Bjorn and slept almost the whole day away.
We attended our 6th Caspar Babypants concert last weekend with our friends the Devereuxs and the Fishers and we had a ball! He just rolled out his newest CD and as you can se
e Evan was very excited about getting it! It was held at a children's museum so the kids got to play during the concert which made it even more fun for them. It was a risky endeavor taking Ava out at that time of night because she melts down around 7 pm if she's not put down for bed. Fortunately she did amazingly well and seemed to enjoy all the stimulation of the music and all of the kids running around. Eventually she managed to fall asleep amidst the chaos.
